Still Searching For Your Soul Mate?

By Nilu Jaswal

Picture yourself in a social environment, where there are many strange faces all around you. Then you catch eyes with someone a small distance away from where you are and find yourself thinking to yourself wow I wouldn't mind getting to know that person. The male will self talk himself into thinking 'how can I go up to this lady and just speak to her?' The female will self talk herself into thinking 'I hope this guy will speak to me.' A lot of the time neither have enough self-confidence and ability to 'pick up the signs' that each are sending to each other unconsciously and walk away missing the chance of a potentially beautiful relationship.

Most people don't realise that their internal dialogue does not determine the thoughts that the other person maybe be thinking towards them. A lot of the time when a couple have had a brief encounter with one another and experience a sort of warm feeling inside they are actually thinking the same thoughts with the hopes of the same outcome.

It is in these moments that people should act because they have had an intuitive nudge from within prompting them to make the move. Here we can see that nothing was forced and no one was out there searching diligently for someone. It kind of just happened. You allowed them to come to you, even if you was the one that made the first move.

When people go out to clubs and bars to attempt to 'pull' someone, again they are 'trying' too hard to get attention and often just end up having a fling with regrets the following morning.

Finding love is a natural process and should be treated as such.

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Be Successful!

Nilu

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