By Art Andersen
Dating Advice for Men
When it comes to dating advice, it is amazing what people fall for when they are desperate. Anyone who has looked at all of the scams on the Internet offering guaranteed success in business for just a small investment probably knows exactly what I'm talking about. People get crazy about money, and they do stupid things when they should know better.
As insane as people get over money, however, they get even crazier over romance. People get dating advice from anyone. People get dating tips from psychics, from friends who have had little relationship success, and from so-called experts with no professional credentials. From Dr. Phil to the palm reader down at the county fair, the world of dating advice is filled with quacks. Although sometimes these people give good advice on dating, you are always taking a risk when you listen to them. Is it worth the risk?
I used to get relationship advice from a good friend of mine. He presented himself as a real ladies man, but the reality was much different. He got a lot of dates with a lot of different girls it was true, but part of the reason was because none of them wanted to stay with him for more than a date or two. We thought he was such a stud at the time that we listened to his dating advice, but it was always terrible. All of his relationship tips inevitably failed. Sure, his dating advice could help us to find a date. He would help us get our relationship profile in order for online dating services, or practice that perfect pickup line. He would not, however, help us make our relationships last.
When you get dating advice from someone, it is important that you first know a little bit about their personal life. I am not saying that someone who doesn't have a good relationship history can't give good dating advice, but I am saying that it should make you wonder. There are some people who can tell you the right thing to do but can't do it themselves, but for every one of them there are at least five who tell it just exactly like they do it. The bottom line is that you should not trust someone for dating advice just because of their so-called expertise. Instead, find a friend who has had at least one very stable relationship and has very good powers of self perception. Get your dating advice from him.
Art Andersen is a full time writer whose specialty is relationships.For expert advice on how to pick up girls and women, go to: http://letmetellyou.info/pickingupwomen
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Tuesday, June 3, 2008
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Saturday, May 31, 2008
Destroy Any Relationship - A Quick 'How To' Guide
By Steven Carter
Why do so many people think they are experts on relationships now? We are constantly bombarded throughout the day with messages about how to make our relationships work, whether we are reading the paper or just watching TV. Some of the advice though is dangerous and just destroys relationships. America is believed to have one of the highest divorce rates in the world to prove that point! At around 50% then the divorce rate of first-time marriages is tragic, one in two couples who get married will split up again, it is much more than that if it is your second or third marriage.
In this short article I thought it would be interesting to stop looking at what you should do to make a relationship work, and look at the opposite - what to do to make it fail. There are three very simple steps to follow, and each one will leade you closer and closer to disaster. But there is hope! By truly understanding how to make something fail then you can also understand how to make it a success, then perhaps one day you will be someone who can give really good advice out to help people.
Step #1:
Go back every night and make sure you do the exact same things, over and over. Fall into a routine, and never change it up. It's easy to do. Just make sure you take your partner for granted. Just recognise that they are the luckiest person in the world to be with you, so now you don't have to do any real work.
The first step may take a few months to kick in, but you have loads of time. Just suck the romance and spark right out of the relationship, and then move directly to step 2.
Step #2:
Do fun things...but make sure you exclude your partner. Make it obvious your partner takes a backseat to your friends. Of course you will do something with your partner, unless you get a better offer.
If your partner decides to take your time up by having a birthday on a night you go out, then make sure you go out with your friends. You'll probably have more fun with them, than hanging out by candlelight with your partner, right? Make a saucy remark about every even slightly hot guy or girl that passes when you are with your partner. Dribble and drool as well for extra effect.
Make your partner feel unappreciated, worthless and insignificant, then step seamlessly into step 3.
Step #3:
You've made it! You're relationship is now on the verge of collapse. Your partner is bored and full of self-doubt. You can finally feel good about lying or having an affair. After all, it's all about you.
Make telling lies a habit. If he or she is nagging you about not spending enough time with them, just make an excuse. Make up some story about working late on some big project when really you are out with someone hot from the office you know they are insanely jealous about. Once they find out what you are really upto then that is bound to end the relationship.
Not to worry. It is not as if you put any effort into making your relationship work anyway.
The End
If you're looking to end a relationship fast, follow these simple steps. It's as easy as 1,2,3!
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