Perseverance In Marriage

By: Stephen Campbell

A necessary aspect of our lives is relationships, specially the relation with our spouse. There are no flaws in the plan of God and they never change unlike the culture of the society. There should be constant nurturing of the relationship. There is a tendency of taking each other for granted after marriage. There may be various reasons like financial management and interfering in-laws that may cause problems.

In today's world, there are a lot of problems in marriage. The rate of divorce is increasing with each passing day. Moreover, the culture of people is becoming vague as the days pass by. It is becoming very difficult for people if they do not follow and be determined in marriage. Though at times it is difficult to pursue the plans of God, it is important to remember that one should keep perusing with the marriage as there are chances of reconciliation.

All relationships face some or the other problems from time to time. It is unfortunate that the problems do not get solved in time and lead to some bigger problem resulting in divorce. The determination to resolve problems in the relationship is missing and this is a major reason for divorce. At times problems arise due to some small problems like husband not able to fulfill the commitment of coming early from office.

It should be admitted that marriage becomes a difficult proposition at times. The demand of marriage is huge and it so happens that young couples are not able to fulfill the commitments given to each other. So, it is important to focus on the things that are important for both the husband and wife. It is the will of the Almighty to be together and try to look for a compromise in our relationship even though there may be suffering and heartaches. Even during good times one should try to make the relationship as strong as possible.

This helps us in becoming better people and in the process is successful in making the marriage successful. Moreover the bond between husband and wife increases and in the process becomes stronger marriage partners. The faith in each other increases and in the process helps the marriage to last longer.

Apart from these reasons the sufferings and happiness can be shared among the husband and wife because if the sufferings are shared it produces perseverance, perseverance produces character and character produces hope.

It is important not to allow the marriage to fall apart because a relationship is the will of God. Compromise should be the buzzword. It is never late to rebuild the relationship again on the basis of trust. The reward of not fading off is a better as the relationship is strengthened.

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Stephen C Campbell (Master NLP Practitioner) has published more information on using Perseverance as a Goal Setting tool at www.perseverancehowtodevelopit.com