By Francis Githinji
True love? What is it all about? Have you ever wondered where this word came from? Some look at it biblically while others thinks of it emotionally. According to me, i view it both biblically and emotionally. This four letter word has been widely used and mostly abused by many people. I hate the way the word has been misused and carelessly abused to have different meanings. There are different types of love, agape, parental and the love that joins two different people of opposite sex as they start sharing their lives together. There is no discrete definition of the word true love. Definition of the word depends on individual's point of view. It is subject to debate and i would say it is a strong feeling or illusion that starts in the mind and develop slowly in ones inner being.
The word true love has been misused in many ways. When a man claims to fall in love with a lady at first sight and claims he feels attracted to her, is this love surely? According to me this is lust at first sight. Talk about love in the presence of young people and you will get to realize how widely the word has been misused. True love is no longer there and the urge that drive people towards each other is not love but lust. Men are not attracted to women for love but for sexual satisfaction. Love is in most cases misinterpreted and many wonder if does exist. Many of my friends believe that love between a man and a woman is imaginary, there is nothing like love but only the power of the loin that attracts.
Misuses of the power of love has become more of a tradition and is a reality. It is passed from generation to generation and who are we to break this tradition? I believe in the power of love and not lust but in practice love is not elusive. True love is developed from within and it is molded and nurtured by our feelings. Love is a precious gift from God and it should be watered well and taken care of or else it withers and dies off. You might be wondering who came up with this word love? I wonder too but who knows where it came from? It is our obligation to take care of this aspect of love and to handle it with care.
Love is life, it wins all and makes someone feel special. Have you ever wondered how to succeed in life and how to live a happy and prosperous life? it's simple, just learn to love and it will multiply joy and add spice to your life. For the married people and for those aspiring to, you should remember that love adds spice to life, it's thoughtful and gives a reason to live, smile and be ever happy.
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Thursday, June 5, 2008
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How to Know If She is in Love With You? 3 Earth Shattering Ways You Simply Can't Afford to Miss
By Pushpa Pal Singh
So does she or does she not? Well this is the question most men ask themselves when they are confused about their partner and do not know whether she truly loves them or not. You see often we tend to get mixed feelings but this does not mean that you can't figure out whether she loves you or not. Read on to discover some of the most effective ways using which you will be easily be able to figure out whether she truly loves you or not......
She is emotionally glued to you- This is a perfect indicator that she is in love with you, you see when a girl seems to love you she would have a high emotional level of involvement with you. She would go on an emotional roller coaster around you which means she would show the extreme of every emotion. Which would be a combination of anger, happiness, love, affection and if she cries a lot when you say something hurtful than she has a very strong attachment with you.
She feels good when she does things for you- She would do favors for you without any personal motive. You see she would do this to make you happy and when you feel happy it would automatically make her happy.
She would match your emotional state- If you are happy she would experience joy and at the same time if you are sad she would feel sad. Her emotions would react according to your emotional state. You see this normally happens when the person truly loves you as that person feels happy when you feel joy and experiences pain when you are going through it.
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